Your ideal partner is there, waiting
for you. Are you ready for him, or her? The, by now well-known saying that, when the pupil
is ready, the teacher appears is true also of your partner. The question is, when your
ideal partner shows up, will you be ready? Will you be able to recognise him, or her?
There could be any number of reasons why you have not found your ideal partner yet, but
let's just deal with two possible ones. The first is that when you do get into a
relationship you go in with one arm held behind your back, all fingers crossed. How well
can you embrace your partner doing that? What you are saying is: "I am not going to
commit fully to this relationship in case a better partner is waiting just around the
corner". Guess what? When you are doing that, your partner is doing the exact same
thing. What chance does this relationship have of surviving the early romance stage?
The second, closely related reason is that you have seen
dysfunctional relationships all around you, probably starting with your parents, then the
traumas being experienced by your friends and of course the wounds you yourself received
in past encounters. Little wonder then, that deep in your subconscious (or not necessarily
all that deep) is the well-rooted belief that the odds on your creating a workable
relationship are heavily stacked against you. And this belief will actively work against
your having a wonderful relationship. There are wonderful relationships, by the way, you
may just not have come across one yet. When you let go of the belief, really let go, that
you are not capable of creating one yourself, you will be well on the way to having it. To
find out more click on how we
do it.
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